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WITNESSING MATRIX
Witnessing Matrix helps you track the progress of your witnessing relationships.
List those who are not able to believe
On the witnessing page list the names of the individuals with whom you want to build a witnessing relationship. They may be from your family members, friends, neighbors, or coworkers who are not able to believe in Christ.
Whom to list: This framework is effective only if you have listed those with whom you have a regular relationship or have the possibility of nurturing one.
Confidentiality: The matrix is intended solely for the person who entered the names to track the progress of their relationships and for their witnessing team members to provide prayer support, mutual learning, and accountability. This information is strictly confidential and should not be shared with anyone else, including the individuals whose names are listed in the Witnessing Matrix.
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Prayer – Listening to God
Throughout His time on earth, Jesus often spent time with the Father, listening. Prayer is like interacting with our teachers or coaches. We don’t tell them what to do; instead, we listen and ask questions, as we desire to become better. In the same way, after reading or listening to the Daily Thought, pause for 30–60 seconds to pray. In that moment, ask God for three things: to become the person who touches the hearts of those you love, to become sensitive to the Holy Spirit's guidance that day, and to grow as a fruitful witness.
Socializing – Where everything happens
To start, invite them for coffee, a meal, or a shared activity you can continue one-on-one. Choose something simple that you're both comfortable with. Socializing is a vital spiritual discipline in witnessing because others experience your faith. Take time to get to know each other deeply and make it mutually beneficial. Socializing is where everything happens; therefore, make it a regular habit, and let the rest flow spontaneously—the sole purpose is socializing, not gospel sharing.
Worldview – Understanding their beliefs
A worldview is a set of beliefs a person has about God, morals, the meaning of life, and the origin or destiny of human beings. As you socialize, focus on understanding those whom you have listed. Jesus spent about thirty years among His people; He understood their culture, customs, and practices before beginning His earthly ministry. Even after He started His ministry, it was only towards the end that He openly revealed that He is the Savior, which is the gospel. Therefore, before sharing the gospel, it is vitally important to understand their beliefs or worldviews.
Gospel—This is what I believe
When you have the opportunity to share the Gospel, always state, "This is what I believe," and don’t present it as "you must believe." If their hearts aren't prepared to receive it, they will reject it and may avoid you. Even if they challenge, criticize, or oppose, don’t argue. Be diligent to understand; be gentle and respectful. Don’t get preoccupied with what to say or what to do during the meeting. Remember that the Holy Spirit working in you is also working in the other person. Only if the other individual asks what it means to be saved may you say, "Believe in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior" (John 3:16 & Romans 10:9).
Church—Let them experience Christian love
When you think it’s the right time, invite them to church or your small group. The primary goal is for them to experience Christians' worship, fellowship, and care for one another.
Learn from the team's list
You can see your team members' witnessing matrix and their progress, and they can see yours. But only you can input and edit your matrix. This greatly enhances mutual learning, sharing, and accountability.
Consistency, Rhythm, and Lifestyle
In your witnessing relationship, consistency and rhythm are not merely habits; they are the heartbeats of a life shaped by the gospel. When you faithfully engage, build intentional connections, and seek Spirit-led discernment, you begin to cultivate a lifestyle of witness that shapes everything you do and influences those around you.